He left then Cheated ---Now What???

[Florie]

Hmmm...humble opinion only, but I think if one of your goals is to save your marraige and she doesn't share that goal with you then it might not be the right T. Of course the making you stronger may be what saves your marraige so it is hard to tell. I talk to one of the DB coaches regularly and she shares both goals with me. Make me stronger with the hope (not expectation) or saving my marraige along the way. It is good to know she is cheering for the relationship along with me with the main focus at this point being on me since he is off in la la land :o) You can always change your mind if you want to give it a few more sessions. Good luck!