Sara, sorry I havent posted in the last couple of days. I was feeling down but got some good pick me up advise on my post.
Personally, I would not set the alarm for him trigger. IMO, it might just come back and bite you. As crappy as it is, your H does have a legal right to be there and if the alarm goes off, you may be the one stuck w the bill. What is it going to change anyway? Will it make him leave? No. It might make you feel better in the short run, but that's it. I say stay as busy as you can away from the house until H is forced to leave. It's really cruel how he is treating you, but I can tell you are getting so much stronger. This too will pass and then you will be in a happy place to find some one who is right for you.
Keep taking the high road becasue when it is all said and done, you will have nothing to feel bad about and he will be the one to carry the guilt.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
