Bring on the Rain - Part 2

[SueS]

Boy, it's just one of those days where I just can't seem to wrap my mind completely around anything.

Our weekend was okay. H has been very, very quiet since Friday. He was decent on Thurs. evening after our conversation, but has been distant & quiet since then.

On Friday we all had dinner together. H & I watched a movie and that was pretty much the night. Sat. was fun for D4 and I. I took her to see "Kung Fu Panda". We had a good time. She was sweet and thanked me for taking her. She and I just did some bumming around for the afternoon. She was one tired little girl when I got her home. On Sun., she and I slept in pretty late. H even came into our rooms to see if we were okay. Sunday was spent cleaning & just getting some things done around the house.

As I said, H has been very, very quiet. He has an appointment with an attorney on Wed. morning regarding his DUI. He had a doctor's appointment this morning, but didn't want to talk to me about it. It's in regards to an issue he's been having personally. It bugs me a bit because it's been bothering him for the past 4 years, but he's taking care of it now. But, the other part smiles and says.....well, at least it wasn't that I didn't turn him on! Guys, I don't mean to make a joke out of it. It's just difficult for me that he's taking care of it now. Like I wasn't good enough or I didn't mean enough to him to have gone before. I did read though that those issues can be an underlying symptom of vascular problems, which is in H's family history.

H started looking for places himself. In the past, OW had been sending him links. Odd thing is though that he looked at 2 options. 3 bedrooms near OW and 2 bedrooms in our area.

Puppy, in answer to your question, I guess I didn't really set a boundary with H about him taking D4 near OW. I just told him how much it upset me. I'm not sure what, if anything, I could do if he does it again. It just angers me how much nerve these WAS & OP's have. I know that the OW in my sitch has convinced my H that living with her H is horrible. My H has commented several times how bad her H is and how horrible things are. My thought always was.......well, you didn't think he was too horrible when you were out golfing with him or out drinking & going to a concert with him.

Well, my mind needs to focus for the last 45 minutes of the work day.

Have a good one.

-SueS