Yeah, it doesn't make a lot of sense that she'd offer that day so you could have more time & then want to take a different day away from you. That's a WAS's logic for you though.
I heard a woman talking on the radio today that I found interesting. Her name is Amy Baker & she wrote a book called "Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome: Breaking the Ties that Bind". It's about parents who are alientated by their children because of the other spouse's actions. She said that she gives examples of what you can do when/if you start seeing signs that your ex is trying to alienate you from your child. I promised my H that I would never harm his relationship with D4 and I hope he never does it with me. However, I can see how others just don't care how it affects their children. Unfortunately, my BIL is one of those people. He and my SIL are divorcing. He made a huge scene at their house just last week which made their D7 fall apart and break down in tears. He said some horrible things to her about not being a family anymore & then he ripped apart (verbally) my SIL to D7. My H has a temper, but not in the same way as my BIL. However, that's my #1 reason for wanting peace between H & I.
Have a good one.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day