Ok, I would like some opinions here. I went and saw a T today and I dont know if I should continue on with her. I told her from the very begining that I wanted to try and save my marriage and that I was there to get stronger for myself. I told her my tale and she then went on to say negative things about my H. Said it sounded like he has never been there for me, that I have been the one who made the R work up to this point, wants to blame me so he doesnt have to feel guilty for his part. I agree with some of what she is saying but I dont see how this can help to work on my R.She said her goal was to try and get me to a place that I didnt feel that I had to take care of others at the cost of me, just be happy with me. I understand that that is a good goal, but I dont know if I am comfortable with what she says about H.
She is a real ballbuster kind of lady (which I like) so wont hold back when it comes to me doing what is good for me. But then she said that with my H personality, she did not see him coming back and that I should try to move on.
What do you think? Stay with someone who I know will help me get strong but does not believe that my M is going to work or move on to a different T?
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
