Now I'm wondering with MLC...does there have to BE a real Rock Bottom...Must there be a crisis to end the crisis?

And...can the MLCer, during his 'hermit' time work through his 'Rock Bottom' without us ever really knowing?

Can/does the MLCer emerge from the fog in a welcoming/cheerful manner? Or is the remorse, like we hear about in the late night phone calls, the true indicator?

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home