Hi Guys,

I've posted this on my newcomers thread too so sorry if you are reading it twice!

I just got a text from my h (he seems to wait a week and then text me either on a Sunday night or a Monday?!), it said

"Hello. I keep thinking about calling but I don't really know what to say. I hope you're ok and work is fine. I guess I'm wondering what we do next with the house etc. I am happy to deal with everything if that's what you'd prefer but I don't really know what you are thinking at the moment."

My thoughts at the moment are to maintain radio silence. This will be the first time that I won't have ever texted him back. But will he just think that is because I am trying to hold onto the house?

I actually have a pretty heavy week at work and it's my mother's birthday so have some nice things planned that will hopefully take my mind off things. I took JWS's advice and went out the house to forget, which really helped but just came back to that :-(

I hate this, it is so not what I want... and he just ruined my enjoyment of a really good TV programme!! -at least I can smile a bit :-)

Does anyone have any suggestions? I'd really appreciate everyone's input.

J x


M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world