T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am OVER THE MOON for the results of the night out with B! WOWSER! OOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWWWWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! KABLOOOOOMMMMMMMM!

I LOVED!!!!!!! the sock comment- I smiled so hard when I read it and now I feel like I was part of your night out. \:\) And I love the naughty song singing too- those were both great baby steps- moments of connection that I think are SOOOOOOO positive. Who would ever have imagined that that would have happened on the first meeting?!!!!! GREAT!

Everyone else has also listed positives, so I won't go over it all, but I think the cheesecake, his eyes lighting up, the eye contact, the brushing arms, his text, all are so positive!

Don't worry too much about thinking that there's a stranger in B's body. Honestly, it took about 6 months of weekly meetings and daily e-mails post bomb for me to see a vague glimmer of my actual H in H's body. YOUR B is in there somewhere- he's just in a slightly different place right now. I think it's good that he's happy with how things are for him right now- I agree that if he's happy it's a much better foundation from which to build a new R. Maybe things will move more quickly than with the H's who need to fix themselves before they can do anything else.

I like the e-mail you sent B. Let's see what he does next. I thought his eyes lighting up about you being in NYC after Lyrica was a great positive. Hopefully he'll arrange to do something togeher again. It sounds as though he really enjoyed your time together- if he hadn't he wouldn't have suggested dessert. Oh, and another thing to not worry about- B not mentioning your appearance. My H has only said I look nice (just that- you look nice (ugh)) once post bomb. I don't think it was because I looked bad because the same day, CEO had told me I took his breath away. Anyway, so I think they just don't say these things for whatever reason.

I LOVED that your bra lace was on show- HOT! I bet he noticed that and had to fight to stop his pants from exploding in case his zipper flew off and hit you in the eye ;\)

WELL DONE T!!!!!! I'm so happy you had a good time (and sorry for rambling!)

(((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

L. xx