Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
And also, his desperation is showing, because he is the one who is too broke to afford the fees, and he is the one who doesn't have time to go through court proceedings before he deploys.


This is exactly right!

Michelle,
Don't even have time to read all of this, because I'm in training in Chicago.

I went through this 6 months ago with my W. So here ya go:

He's pissed because divorce isn't easy. Neither is legal separation. It doesn't happen overnight. None of his threats mean anything. He doesn't have the money to do anything anyway, just let him be miserable.

Get that studying done and finish your final!


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK