you're seeing 5 people hurt because of lies. it doesn't matter if it was a marriage, it doesn't make it any worse or better. i realize it isn't entitlement, that wasn't my point. yeah, i guess anybody who goes through some crap and hurts their partner isn't worth it. i believe that, the hell i do
The fact that it wasn't a marriage changes the way you can fight to save it; how far you can go. I didn't say the heartache was less - but the acting out on your part needs to be.