Someone once told me I should try to ask him questions such as...
'How would you like me to feel?' 'Was that suppose to hurt my feelings?' etc, When he says mean things. It's supposedly, suppose to point out his behavior to him, but I just think he'll just use it as an excuse, and respond with... 'However you want to feel.' passing the buck. I totally understand that you can't argue a person's feelings away, just like he can't expect me to not feel hurt by what he says, because he is hurt from his past. So, how do you go about it? A person can only take so much before they start to feel it... and I've hit my limit, I'm afraid.
If I can just break his outer wall, I could totally 'fix this'... but I guess we're all in that boat one way or another, huh?
