Aud, I did not apologize for what happened to her. I did explain to her that I fell asleep, as I didn't want her to think I was up and about and let her sleep thru the party. I think this is what she was most concerned about--that I chose not to wake her, because I didn't want to go.
I assume the dynamic you're referring to with your H, is one blaming you for something that was their fault.
You are correct. Her sleep problems are for her to solve. I can assist her to the extent I can, but it's not my problem to solve. She's going to add a few more alarm clocks in her room as a back-up.
Perhaps my feelings are related to the missed party opportunity, and our failure in communication, versus thinking that I've done something wrong.
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"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
