I am sorry for you Ian, really I am.

But... you are a grown up.

And with that comes huge responsibilities.

And NO none of this is fair.....

And find ONE single on this website who was treated fairly and wasn't given the short end of the stick....

And yes I also know what it feels like to be so overwhelmed with "kidstuff" and with being in charge and how wonderful it would be to just escape from it all.

You fought your arse off for those kids for a reason.

Yes you also deserve a break, and a chance to unwind and to relax

But there are other ways to do it.

Sorry, no high 5's or pats on the back from me.

To thine own self be true, even if not to everyone else.

(((((((hugs)))))))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.