For the Guy with Kids and a WW4

[hopeful4her]

Understood, Puppy. Thank you, again.

I have never brought up 50/50 with WW. That will be discussed tonight.

I have never thought of a restraining order against OM, but that definatly sounds like a good idea.

I have my sister working on helping me as she just started a new job with an attorney. I have had an initial consult with an attorney. She wanted 5K retainer. She also told me, and my sister has verified this, that if I do not want my kids to leave with her, I have to initiate divorce.

I do not WANT to initiate, but again, we will see how tonight goes. I will let her know that if she is unreasonable, then I will thank her for letting know what it is that I have to do.

And leave it at that.

What do ya'll think of how I'm thinking of starting the discussion.

My earlier post:

I just feel so discombobulated right now. I am going to rely on our talk tonight. Put everything on the line. Total honesty talk. Talk about what she thinks of me. Talk about what she thought about church. Ask her how she felt on Saturday watching how the girls reacted. Give her a copy of smartcookies post. Let her know I understand her but not her wanting to take the girls.

Thoughts?