custody hearing on friday -- so scared

[phbear316]

Maryangela

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Good for you, see, we told you! you can do this.

Try the rubberband thing, never thought of it myself, I used the stop sign technique. But hey if it works it works.

Way to go with the letters, see, you feel better knowing this part is done.

Look professionals from social workers to judges to child advocates see the stuff you h is trying to pull on you everyday. Most likely even worse than what you are going thru. So "snap" that rubber band and just remain calm and cool like a cucumber, let it roll off you like a duck.

Stand back and look at what he is doing, some day you will see what a real as*()e he is being. And you know what at some point in the future you are going to just laugh when you think about it. For you will take the high road, and you will be the one on top. With your head head perfectly high.

Yes you miss your D, and that is ok, she will be back with you soon. You will miss her even when he has his time with her. When he is with her it then becomes you time to GAL, go out, keep busy and time will just fly by till you angel is in you arms again giving mommy a great big kiss.

Stop worrying about that darn journal and what you wrote. He is trying to use it against you and he cannot. Let it go. The past is the past it happened a long time ago. Gosh if my h took my journals that i wrote post 9/11 yes he would think I should have been committed too. It is still a very painful part of my life but i have learned to make peace with it. Only I could just like you did.

Your h is grabbing a anything he thinks he can use against you. BUT remember this HE HAS NOTHING. Just a big man trying to push you around. Guess what Maryangela is not going to pushed around anymore she is going to stand her ground.

Start saying that to yourself!


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