Thanks Jack, I really appreciate it. You are right, the MLCer cannot really be there for you in your time of need. He is so selfish right now...has been for a LONG time.

His gesture was to 'drink' to my beloved pet. Ugh.

I don't know if he will come out of it...i hope he does...but honestly, maybe I do need to move on...

LL is really messed up...i mean really bad. "Silent Son" bad.

This is so difficult...and sometimes it seems as if it will never end.

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller