How do I act around her, I don't want to be friends with her. I'm disgusted by her actions. It makes me sick to think of her and OM together. I use to be attracted to her now I find myself, instead of looking at her attractive features, focusing on her not so attractive features, I cannot wait till summer is over, so I don't have to see her everyday.
If you don't want to be friends with her, maybe you shouldn't be then? I know someone else (?) recently posted real friends don't act like our WAS do. I can't stop myself from being friendly with everyone including my H, so I am trying not to beat myself up over that, and just limit time spent with H. If you can't be friendly or don't want to be, then I think you have to go with that. But, I do think you should be civil and polite though, if nothing else for the kids' sake--which I know you will! Karen
Karen