I agree..no expectations of your H. Then you won't be disappointed. Easier said than done, I know.
I had a blowup with my H last night and felt a panic when I thought about my little baby not being with me all the time. That is a huge motivator for me now and I will probably turn the other way more often just to keep the peace. I know that is not a solution, but when it comes to my baby I will go the extra mile.
Kendall will be here soon and I promise you will think differently.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!