I'm so sorry your H is being such an idiot. So thoughtlss and selfish. Reading what he's said it sounds like he's really angry aabout something, and I don't think it's you. I would imagine that he's under some pressure from OW and reacting to it, as well as thee deployment coming up. And he's obviously totally forgotten about your agreement to discuss this tomorrow too.
Phew, I feel like I need a deep breath. I hope you've had a few too. Go off IM, don't answer the phone. Somehow you need to find some focus for your test. I know that sounds facetious, but (and you know too), you need to get that out of the way. You can do it- you're so strong. We're all here to help however we can.
OK, secondly, and in relation to signing the papers etc., think about doing a 180 on this. I think that because H is reacting so strongly to your perceived 'stubborn-ness' (Grrr- this makes me mad, considering how he;s behaved over the past few weeks), you should do a 180-. so when he says you have nothing in common, say 'you know what, you're probably right. I don't know what we were thinking before'. Then he has nowhere to go with his line of argument. The only thing he'll be able to do is to dance the dance.
I don't know if that's good advice, but I guess it's something to think about after the finals. I'm really thinking of you Michelle. (((((((((((hugs))))))))))
L. xx
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
