Actually I pay the phone bill. He might be doing you a favor. Sometimes it is better not to know then to dwell on it. I know there was a time where I would check it to see how often they were texting. The worst part about it was I told her, "I have no problem with you having friends, I would just like to be included in it".
The DBing has really helped me accept that I can't fix this, I can only fix me and has helped me be a much better listener. Before that I would try to "logic" her to insanity.
Keep up the positive thoughts, he knows he is not himself now and he is willing to tell you that, which seems pretty big to me. Just be his sounding board if he needs you to be.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
