Did I diappoint you

[AliSuddenly]

(((((Michelle)))))

I'm so sorry that he is being so hard on you, the tone he is using, god he sounds so angry. He sounds irrational. I mean, you never didnt tell him where you live, so thats absurd. When he says...

since you have made sure I don't know where you live. Then there will be forms you will be required to fill out and sign in front of a judge. And since you are making the big bucks I'll do my best to make sure you pay the fees that go along with all these forms. If you really want the public embassment, I'll do it. I'll drag you into a courtroom before a judge and explain why you were a poor wife.

I mean, its just plain nasty. I think your H has issus. You wouldnt talk to anyone this way, who hasnt hurt you (you havent hurt him) he sounds full of rage and resentments. And whats that "since you are making the big bucks".. thats awful, he is jealous of you and angry at himself it seems. His life is cr*ppy and he is lashing out. Who knows, maybe Slasher dumped him after you sent her that link and it made his blood boil.

I tried to say before that I think your H needs a tonne of T to get over his upbringing and that this is NOT about you, and his IMs here make me think that even more so. He sounds like an angry young man. I think you should stop getting angry back at him, just agree, just say ok, just let him go? I know you havent wanted to, but I dont see what choice you have.

And to be honest Michelle, I think we all agree, you deserve better sweetheart.

Ali xxx