Is his deployment in less than 90 days? If so, you CAN stall this further.
Contact the base chaplain. They will help you put things on halt. They will consider it pre-deployment stress. I know here, the base will stop all legal actions that fall within a 90 day time frame prior to and after a deployment, ESPECIALLY A divorce proceeding.
Calm down, worry about your final today, and deal with this crap tomorrow.
{{{{{Michelle}}}}}
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7