A last resort - not sure what to do?

[MsMelancoly]

Hi Julia, I am a newcomer here. My sitch resembles yours & many others here. (My H left 10 months ago & has made no effort to contact me on his own. I too, did everything in the book wrong). My mum is the only one who asks about my marriage anymore. Sometimes, I don't know why I'm holdng on either. So all your feelings are natural. Just remember through all of this that you are learning, you are gaining knowledge about yourself and about relationships. And learning different methods to fight for your marriage and to make yourself a stronger person.