He left then Cheated ---Now What???

[No Longer BH]

I just got off of the phone with L. He said that if I file for LS then after it is completed, H can then take it and turn it into a D 90 days later. I guess that answers my question on whether I should get one or not.

ImLin.....the reason I told his family is because I was told that as long as they live in fantasy land, they will continue the affair. By outing them, they have to start living in reality and that can cause the A to end earlier. I dont know if what I did was right or wrong, only time will tell.