For the Guy with Kids and a WW4

[hopeful4her]

I want to keep my kids at home. I would like my WW to leave and figure things out on her own.

But...

I don't want to put the kids in the middle of a tug of war, also.

Do I have a talk with my D11 and ask her what SHE wants?

At the very least, I believe that I can settle for 50/50 time.

Not able to get attorney because I can't afford it at this time.

That is why I want to talk to WW tonight.

Every time that we have discussed the kids before, we just go back and forth on them and then it gets escalated and out of hand. Divorce gets thrown out. Tempers flare. This was when she was just threatening.

WW-I want to seperate. You move out.
Me-I say I am not leaving.
WW-Ok, since your not leaving, I am leaving with the girls.
Me-Your not taking the girls.
WW-I am not leaving with out the girls.
Me-Your not taking

She ain't just threatening no more.