"The things you share about your wife - these are not the actions of a woman who is intent upon moving on without you. And I say this with just a twinge of fear because if you ever begin thinking that you've won her back again, you may be tempted to slip back into the old NDS".
AHHH....and she reels me back into reality just so "I don't get my hopes up".
Last night in chatting about the previous evening with friends and the barbecue, there was a discussion about a certain female there who was paying me just a little too much attention.
Was my wife jealous? Maybe, but she didn't let on. She just wanted to let me know that "For future reference, she may not be some one I would want to get involved with"..!!! Guess she would not approve of her as someone she would like to see me with when I am not with her any more....nice shot...thank you!!
Oh, thanks. That is EXACTLY what I was and have been thinking about as I have gone through this with you the last couple of months...I am trying to pick out the perfect replacement....no, I did not say that out loud.
I brushed it off and said thanks for thinking about me...laughed about it a little and tried not to feel hurt.....and how did the evening go after that?...the usual...we finished dinner...chatted over drinks, played a game and ended up having a crazy, intimate time together. Guess she is just trying to get as much as she can until she finds the right girl for me to replace her.
See how far I've come....I am joking about now..
I would've laughed and said "Gee, thanks, (wife), I'll make sure I get your approval on anyone I want to date in the future, yeah, sure. Actually, I'm very content with a certain particular woman right now anyway," and given her a little squeeze.
