I am so sorry about the latest developments. Try to just keep your focus on your final for now.
I remember my H talking about volunteering for another deployment when he was going through all this. It is another way for him to run from his problems.
I am sorry I don't have any great advice for you, but after your exam you do need to see what he sent and sit down and have a talk with you. Maybe a legal sep would be the way to go.
I am so sorry you are going through this yet again.
