friend of mine has agreed to care for my dog for a long period of time so I can have the opportunity to work more and save some money... will be able to go for longer periods of time not contacting H because there won't be any reason. It will force me to allow him to make the moves.
Thanks Tink - I just get so crazy and upset I often don't think straight! Debby - I love the DO OVER line. I will be using that in my head this week. We have a huge wedding coming up - our S is getting married in less than two weeks - our other S graduated high school this past Saturday, so I am giving myself a little leeway in my emotional state. This week will be a total do over!
Me-48 H-48 Married 25years Sep 12/05 S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12 Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1565826
I do have a fantastic dress! Thanks for asking - and I am looking gorgeous. Just to brag a bit - I have lost about 25# for this wedding - I ate to forget my S! But I will look fabulous. And my future DIL is fantastic - we are very close, so this is a really joyous day! She and I just did the seating for the reception - what a chore! But it will be a great day. BTW - in reading the Bitches book - I realized that when I was dating my H and throughout most of our marriage - I really was doing all that was listed in that book! But when he had an EA with someone at work, I totally changed. I wanted him and begged him to stay, and he begged me not to leave. And from that point on, the "hand" (as they said in Seinfeld) totally changed and I was the on pursuing him and trying to constantly please. Weird.
Me-48 H-48 Married 25years Sep 12/05 S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12 Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1565826
