It is good to get support from your friends like that, it lets you know that you are not the only one that sees it. I agree with regards to how it affects your self confidence though. You feel like everyone is looking at you like your some sort of fool "letting" this go on. I thought you handled it pretty well, particularly the discussion about it the next day.
I kind of disagree with one thing your GF said, with regards to taking it out of town. I would actually prefer to have it close to home. If he is flirting at the pub where all of your friends are then it is highly unlikely that he is going to do anything other than feed his ego. For me the hardest part is what I don't know.....it lets my imagination run wild which is a very bad thing for me.
That is great that he asked a bunch of questions about the open house. He is realizing what he is missing out on and you probably had him wondering by going out to dinner later.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
