It was an eye opening weekend. I found significant evidence that my W has been having an EA/PA for some time. The whole D is based on this. It hurts that she has been cheating but also that she has blamed me for the D while lying about the A. I think that her stages in the S are from how the A is going and nothing to do with me at all. It looks like DBing may be over with in many ways. I am very hurt and wonder what to do. I will be as dim/dark as possible and try to get my PMA together. At some point I will need to switch to the infidelity forum.......
I would appreciate any advise on how to swallow this news and keep it together.
