Your husband still loves you. He's giving up on you, because he doesnt believe you love HIM, enough to give him what he needs. That hurts him, so he's taking actions to cut away the hurt.
Don, her H is mental at some degree, why should she apologize? if you've read her first posts on this board you'll see how he used to yell at her face and put her down in from of other people. The verbal abuse is just unbelievable. I do agree that what she said to him last week was not the thing to say, but it doesn't put all the blame on her.
I have learned that to have good communication one must drop all sarcasm, drama, baits and any other games. It is hard to do but it is a must in order to deal with the core of the problem.
This is not about how she is unwilling to change, it's about him picking some stuff that bothers him and making it all about her and how she is not trying to change.
She actually went to a psychiatrist to prove him she doesnt' have a mental condition and what did he say ? "so you are being a b*tch on purpose". He has MAJOR issues and is unwilling to admit to anything.
Again, I dont' know her life nor how it used to be,she admits what he wrote on his emails was true, but since then she admitted to her wrong doings, he WON'T, he just blames her and her alone.
What about he level of pain she is going through? having being in that sitch, in which all I did was put my H's pain/issues above mine I realize now how I lost sight of myself as a woman/mother/person.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
