I'll have more for you later, H4H, but that's all that's in my heart right now, just DAMN HER.
Your post made me cry for the first time in EVERYTHING I read on these boards, every day. My daughters are 21 and 19 now, but all I could think about was them at that age, and . . .
. . . and DAMN her.
Prayers to you, my friend, that God will give you strength, wisdom and discernment in the days, weeks and months ahead.