Jak, Matilda, and Piecing Friends, My W and I went dancing two nights over the weekend. Friday night was at the local R&B venue, where we hardly know a soul. Sunday night we ventured to a different venue to try out our west coast swing steps. It seems like my W is most happy when she's on the dance floor.
On Saturday night we slept thru a party we had been invited to. My W turned in for a nap around 8:30PM. I too fell asleep. At 2:30AM, my W came storming into my bedroom, shrieking that we had missed the party.
It was unpleasant for the next 12 hours. She really wanted to go to that party. I feel badly that I didn't push myself to get up and wake her up. I offered to go to a casino that's about an hour from us, as I knew she'd be unhappy staying-up by herself all night. Even though she was initially crabby, she was grateful for the companionship.
She bought a 52" screen TV for her entertainment room. I went with her on Saturday and helped her pick a new sofa. She asked me if I would sit and watch a movie with her sometime.
She again asked me if I really wanted to go to Hawaii with her, as she didn't want a party pooper for a companion. I told her that I felt like I already conveyed my interest in going, and didn't know what more to say to conninvce her that I wanted to go. She's going to follow-up with the travel agent soon.
She continues to struggle with sleeping on a regular schedule, falling asleep, and peaceful sleep. It's hard for me to relate or understand how it affects her mood during the day, as I'm a regular, sound sleeper.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
