A Very Rough Year - Breast Cancer & MLC

[TwinDad]

Hey Hope, Sorry I haven't checked in all weekend, but I shouldn't get on this site when I am around my W and well I was around her all weekend which was a good thing. In fact I haven't slept at Da-Da's house in about a week

My daughter had her first dance recital on Sat and we went out for lunch with my MIL afterwards (who is in favor of the M working). At lunch my W was talking about saving all this money because we had sold our large house and didn't have to drive as far. My MIL said something about how do yuo figure you are saving money if you are maintain 2 households. I actually came to my W's defense and said something like why don't y'all talk about this at home or something like that (my MIL doesn't know how to lower her voice and the whoel restaurant could probably hear). My W said that was ok and and she would talk to her mom and then said that we wouldn't be maintaining two households for much longer

Sound slike your evening at the pub went very well. A lot of positives (him wanting you to sit next to him and being sesitive about your feelings). Even the little slip up gave you an opportunity touse your DB skills. It is good that he recognizes that he has a problem that he is dealing with. You handled it with class and love!

If I had to guess, your H probably just likes the fact that he can get attention from other Women. Married or not, most men like it when they can garner any sort of attention from a pretty lady....it is kind of like an ego boost and probably has little to do with you and more to do with him.

It is good that he went golfing with a happily married friend. A good friend of mine once told me the one thing he liked most about going to church was that you were in a room full of people that basically wanted their families to be happy and a healthy. If people surround themselves with positive people then positive things will happen.