Best Time of my Life 5

[Sandyof5]

Treese,

Take what all these fine people have said to you and hold it in your heart. I sent you a text and try to call me tonight..k?

My H stopped by unannounced this past week and everyone ignored him. I went right into bedroom to do somethings ( basically to put distance between us...cuz i get the verbal vomit when he does talk to me). A few minutes later he just walked in and closed door behind him..im like "uh ohhh"
and he says....

H "what did you tell our neighbors about me?? when I got out of car I said hello and they ignored me..what did you tell them?"

M " I didnt tell them anything, X did"

H " you can't go around embarrasing me like that. And what did you tell Z?? you told her there was someone else? If you dont stop embarrassing me like that I'm gonna start doing it to you. Ive been nice and kept my mouth shut but Im gonna start embarrassing you too" ( he rambled on and on about being embarassed. interesting.)

M " I have nothing to be ashamed of".

H " and what are you telling the kids...that God is going to heal me of my sickness and our marriage will be better than ever?"

Hmmmmm....interesting..Ive never told the kids he has a "sickness"..and those were his exact words..he knows he's not ok. He's fighting it big time. and now for my finish...I said...

"Doug that is enough. I dont have to stand here and listen to this verbal vomit. I have heard enough. Now if you will step a side I have someplace to be"

I grabbed my breifcase and purse and keys and exited house backed outa driveway and had no idea where the heck I was going..lol. But I left him standing there..alone. I wasnt mean ..remember thats his job..I was matter of fact and strong.

BTW I just drove a couple streets over and called a friend and yacked on cell till I knew he was gone..

sigh..but he said he had a "sickness" and he pretty much came to me to tell me? In hindsight Im wondering if I shoudla stuck around to hear more but I was in "strong woman" mode..lol

Treese..listen to what these fine smart wonderful people are telling you..k?

Let me ask you this?? Have you seen a seperation/divorce paper yet?

I'll talk to you soon!