I think a biggee that he refers to is us moving to Tennessee. I DO NOT want to move, nor do I think our marriage is any state to move right now. ALL our family is here. His best friend is going to move to TN. He thinks I wouldn't have to work if we move and he thinks that should convince me enough. I'm scared at the thought. If we move, and our marriage is still crappy...I'd be stuck there. I couldn't take the kids back to CA. ALL my family is here, and I need them. He wants me to move, where I know NO ONE, with a crappy marriage, no friends, no family, no church. No thanks.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
