No response yet. I'm not sure if he checked his email or not. Likely he will when he gets off work tonight. Lunch was OK. A birthday card was sent around before h showed up, and I really struggled with how to sign it, but I just went ahead and wrote both our names. He showed up really late, and sat down next to me. Of course, that's where the kids where. So, he could have done that for that reason. We had a little small talk. He told me about a couple purchases he just made and how much he spent (remember I still do our finances). His cousin then handed him the card to sign, and I said, "oh I already signed your name." He said, "ok" and handed the card back. There didn't seem to be any weirdness in it at all, which I was happy about. He still doesn't say good-bye to me. He goes around hugging everyone saying good-bye when he leaves, expect for me. Even on the phone, when the kids call to say good-night, I get on the phone at the end, and he says, "I need to go" and hangs up. Not even a good-bye just a click.
I know it's about showing him that I've changed, but after this much time, he's not going to beleive anything. He's given up.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
