Hey Ready,

<<Weekends without kids suck. Wife had them all weekend.

I spent a lot of time imagining how it would be, if I left H, & if it was the weekend that he had the kids & I was home alone. It sucked just imagining it. I feel for you.

<<Only good thing is that W was not home, and I could do what I wanted.

Okay, I used to feel this way too. Now, I can do what I want even when H is home. Try it. (within reason to your sitch, I mean).

Thinking about you.


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.