I like the part where you calmly told him to have his lawyer call your lawyer. And then the part about the car and the legal fees. You are a lot stronger than you allow yourself to believe you are.
Your husband thinks he's some kind of caveman who can hit a woman on the head, drag her to his cave, and then throw her away when he wants a new one. He will be introduced to the real world by the judge. And if he doesn't comply they will take it directly out of his paycheck before he gets it.
