Well, I know it's hard. Thanks for saying I handled my sitch ok - I feel like I'm just screwing it all up left and right.

It might help to read some of the posts from WAS to reconsider what your W might be thinking. Bridgestone posted some pretty personal observations:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1464896&page=0#Post1464896

and smartcookie did as well:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1469694&page=6#Post1469694

And I just posted this on my thread, but I find a TON of good stuff in grasshopper's threads - here's the link on my site and be sure to notice the following link. I've found all this really helpful to read:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1473116&page=0#Post1473116

She IS stubborn, but she didn't make this decision overnight and you need to reach deep within yourself to understand that. She's asking you to understand that. The challenge is to SHOW her someone that makes her want to tear down her preconceptions.

lodo

Divorced: 10/26/08