I'm good with veggies but because I was a guide (feed the guests ASAP) I usually just throw meat on and burn it for awhile - never try anything new so I'm sure you could teach me something.
She's DEFINITELY racked with guilt, but if I were you I'd concentrate on trying to smooth out your reactions. I KNOW how hard it is. Believe me, I'm still struggling with that, but you can't be in a space where you have to physically leave your own house right before dinner or you'll go crazy. Especially when you knew this was coming. This isn't a 2x4, think of it as a 1x3 - I just am concerned that you're making things worse for yourself.
The sitch has got to play itself in a natural progression and that's going to take time, patience, love, and understanding. And the understanding part includes the fact that you may end up divorced. So be as strong as possible for yourself and for your children - they especially need to see that strength in someone they look up to.
These are the cards we've been dealt. Others have suffered much more, so just keep that in mind. Come here to vent and keep taking care of yourself - emotionally as well as physically.
