For the Guy with Kids and a WW4

[hopeful4her]

kat, we have gone back and forth on this. I always said, "Leave, but your not taking the kids."

She always says, "I'm not leaving with out the girls."

Back and forth. The only thing I can think of is legal action. I do not have the funds. I have my sister trying to help me with this, as she is a para legal now, but fresh out of school. I am thinking about what to discuss with her. I want at least 50/50 time. Maybe a week or two there and same here. I am trying to gather my thoughts and any advice here is appreciated. I do not see how she can afford it.

Today, we went to the video store, and I overheard a call. Apperantly from the apartments. I heard her telling that them something about proving her income. Credit must have passed. Still not sure.

She gets paid bi weekly. The rent is about $150 over one of her checks alone.

I can see getting seperated. It may be what she needs. May be what I need, too. I'd rather not, of course. Always felt like chances are better with her here. As you can read, we are on pretty good terms. Just that she has two different lives. At the very least, she's two different people.

It is the kids. I have to figure out how to keep my kids with me. I don't want to put them in the middle. Not going to make them choose. I have a feeling what D11 might choose, though. It is just sad.

I can only hope that today was a HUGE truth dart.

God has spoken to her before, I feel. She just has chosen to ignore or change it to what she thinks is to her advantage. Like her stroke. Trying to figure out the discussion to have with her. Friend angle? Threat angle? Deep discussion about church? I am trying to figure it out.

What do you think? Again, advice?