Can I be so bold to ask why the girls aren't staying with you, in their home. She wants to leave, there's the door but is this what your kids want? Is this what you want? Who says she get's to have them?
I cried reading your post and I am sorry it has come to this. Maybe her credit won't be good enough on it's own. Maybe today was a big truth dart.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory