Thanks K. I had thought there was no turning back, but now I want to belive there is hope. I was just texting with H though to let him know that D15 is upset and wants things to be over. H asked if he can talk to her tomorrow. I am sure he won't be giving her any go news or telling her anything that will make her feel better.
Today he called while the Ds and I were eating lunch. H wanted to know if he could come over. We had discussed him coming over the night before and I said sure. Told him there was enough if he wanted lunch. After a couple of hours we all went shopping together. I found some things for the Ds for vacation and H went to look for shorts for himself. D10 told me he wanted me to go with him while he tried them on. H seemed pretty relaxed about that. At one point I told him to turn around and grabbed his bottom. H seemed amused and I did it again a little later.
H stuck around for a couple of more hours and I asked if he was staying for dinner. He ended up eating with us before he left for the evening.
As you said K, I need to work more on the detaching. Hopefully my trip with the Ds next week will help. I have been sharing our plans with H. Letting him know we are going to go and have a good time. Maybe my meeting with the L on Tuesday will really help me detach.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
