Take a deep breath. What your H said today I have heard so many times, others here have heard the same things over and over again.
You need to stop the R talk. Give him space. Detach, detach, detach! If he comes over leave and go somewhere, even if it hurts because you want to see him. He needs to get through this by himself. You need to get GALing more. You need to find peace in your life.
I had blew up so many times on my H and after the crying stopped I felt stronger because I got it all out and told him how I felt. I think it gives them something to think about. If your H isn't far enough along in his journey your message to him probably sounded like Charlie Browns teacher......wahwahwahwah. If he is far enough along maybe it struck a nerve. One never knows with these MLCer's.
I will be checking back in after I get my D out of the bathtub.
