It is very sad and I hope my children don't repeat it.

I don't know if my approach is right for my situation, but it's right for my own head and I need to get my own head right at this point.

Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.