I'm just afraid that when the advocate speaks to her, she will do the 'daddy, daddy" thing and of course, when the advocate interviews h, he will emphasise that -- "my daughter always asks for me, doesn't want to go home last time I took her there",etc. how do I compete against that????
You don't have to. That kind of thing isn't going to have a thing to do with it. If that's all it took, all the Disney Dads would have custody, and that's not the case! She's five, her opinion on parenting isn't going to carry a lot of weight!
You are borrowing a lot of trouble, he's got nothing!