Do you enjoy this panic and drama? It sure seems like it. You do a LOT to keep yourself spinning totally out of control, and not a whole lot to stop yourself. (step #1 stop listening to your H, and when you do have to listen, don't believe a word of what he says).
Cut it out.
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Don't you guys get it??? He plays mean and he plays dirty. I can't win.
YOU are the one who is not "getting it" right now Mary. He is not "the law," he does not get to make these decisions. You are taking every single thing he says as "THE TRUTH" and "THE WAY IT'S GOING TO BE."
Unless he's going to do something COMPLETELY stupid and illegal and truly kidnap her - but assuming he will follow the law, he is not the one who makes custody / legal decisions.
Let your lawyer deal with it. It's his job. He's good at it.
CALM DOWN, be kind and loving to your daughter.
Make your H leave so you can enjoy your time with her.
Everyone else has said everything I wanted to say and much more eloquently.
((((Mary))))
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
