Go to dinner with your wife as the man who loves her.
And enjoy your evening.
Bill
I forgot to even mention the barbecue last night...we had a great night. I had planned to try and give her some space, let her hang out with the girls and relax, have some fun. She ended up by my side most times, popping up to give me a kiss or a hug....being very affectionate the whole evening. If I was standing around and she was sitting, she would call me over to be by her. Once she suggested we "sneak off" for a little rendezvous while no one was paying attention...silly stuff.
It felt good to be around other people and have her act like my partner, like she still cares about me.