Well this may not be your answer, but it may be of some help. Try to stay focused on yourself and put God first in your life. So here are a few verses I picked up at church today that I thought applied to my sitch.
"11 Believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe on the evidence of the miracles themselves. 12 I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. 13 And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Son may bring glory to the Father. 14 You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it." John 14:11-14 NIV
Also we are effective by caring, we are effective by praying. Pray to carry one another. Carrying means we do whatever it takes to position people for a miracle.
